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The Father-Son Trip of A Lifetime – Golf, Bonding & a Trip That Will Never Be Forgotten…

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This article was written by the CEO of ClickitGolf – Jeff is an avid golfer, golf enthusiast, and one hell of a business partner.

BACKGROUND:

In this article, we walk you through the type of golf trip that enforces that coveted father /son relationship, moreover, the kind of trip that can significantly change lives and relationships forever. I assume we have your attention… Great, Mission #1 accomplished ✅ – Keep reading to see how it all went down!

In all honesty, and after some reflection, I am doing this as much for me as I am for you, my readers, so THANK YOU! I will truly re-live this trip and the memories we made every time I read this piece. Also, unselfishly, I hope it inspires… Inspires you to do something similar with someone special in your life sooner than later. It doesn’t have to be golf – it can be hiking, camping, tennis, pickleball – shoot – pick your narrative really! Whatever your heart desires, make it happen – it will undoubtedly bring you closer to someone you share a similar passion with. So… In the words of Phil Knight… “Just Do It”.

It seems these days we blink and another year goes by. You know what they say…each day wasted, is one that we can never get back. With that, I decided that this was our Summer. It was weird how it happened. We looked at each other after dinner one night, and as if we both had an out-of-body experience mind melt, we just knew It was on! Furthermore, my ClickiGolf partner had been pushing me to do it and thought our readers might enjoy experiencing it right along with us. So we did, we kept a journal and took pictures. This article is the direct outcome of making a dream a reality. Ready – Let’s go!

INTRODUCTION:

Recently, I embarked on one of those trips of a lifetime with my 18-year-old son Andrew.   Both being avid golfers, we journeyed to Ireland to play five of the most famous golf courses in the world. Now, he may have the old man’s number now, but just a few short years ago, I could give him 5 a side and feel comfortable. Dylan said it best… The times they are a-changin’ – and boy – was he right then and oddly enough those words seem to resonate even more so now…

We all have that “bucket list” we want to check off during our life.  I am so lucky to have just checked off one of the boxes. You know, the one you dream of, but deep down aren’t sure will ever really happen. Well, this one, I have been dreaming of for decades – and I’ll be damned, even as I write this, on the plane back from Ireland, I am questioning if it was real or all some sort of elaborate visceral lucid dream… OUCH – the flight attendant passed me with her cart filled with tonic water and bags of peanuts. I have an aisle seat, my right elbow was just bumped by said snack cart, and the tingling in my “funny bone” is letting me know – HOLY SH*T – this trip WAS REAL! I digress…

Itinerary: a 12-hour transatlantic flight to a far-off land. Just a dad and his only son embarking on an adventure of a lifetime. Our goal: Taking off for the iconic golf heaven named Ireland. This will be the kind of golf trip that will kick start one person’s life & college career while simultaneously bookending a significant chapter for the other. A proud father and now, a new empty nester… Thank you for taking this journey with me. Here goes…

HOW IT CAME TO BE:

A little background – I’m an 8 handicap and my son is a 1 handicap and played high school golf in Florida; Andrew did receive some offers to play college golf at various d2 and d3 schools, but has chosen to study hard and hopefully meet some cute college co-eds! (I hope in that order).

We had planned this trip over 18 months ago because getting onto these courses is extremely difficult (especially following Covid-19) when many golfers were forced to cancel travel and rebook the following year.

I am very fortunate to be happily married for 30 years and have 3 great children.  My wife also loves golf and my oldest daughter, now 26 was a competitive golfer in high school and now plays for fun when she finds the time.  Initially, we would have opted for a “family trip” to Ireland however my middle child, Lexi (age 23)  has no clue how to hit a golf ball.   I still love her but why couldn’t she learn golf instead of tennis when she was a kid?  Thus, the rationale for the father/son trip!

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As I learned, there are 2 regions of Ireland for golf – (1) the North and (2) the South.   Although not horribly far by car (around 6 hours), most golfers will pick one region of Ireland and then plan a follow up a follow-up trip to return.

We chose the Southern Region and booked these 5 courses:

Andrew did want to travel to the North to play 2 very famous courses (1) Royal County Downs and (2) Port Rush – both courses considered top 10 in the world.   However, it wasn’t in the cards for this trip so it gives us the best excuse to hopefully go back in the future.

THE COURSES AND OUR RANKINGS:

Old Head ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐– called the Pebble Beach of Ireland.   And it certainly was.  We were blown away by the views.    Our caddie at Old Head (and candidly at every course) was beyond incredible. 

Tralee ⭐⭐⭐⭐ – I hadn’t really heard of this course in depth prior to the trip.  What a course.  Maybe the most beautiful back 9 on Earth.  Built into the water on every hole. 

Waterville ⭐⭐⭐⭐– One of the oldest courses in Ireland and the home of the Irish Open a few years back.  Just a month earlier, Adam Scott and Shane Lowry played there.  As we’re checking in with the starter, a very friendly Irish gentleman about 80 years old says “Andrew – you look like a good golfer?” Andrew quickly says “You look pretty good yourself” as you just get a different energy and can somehow tell that this guy was “a player.”  We started talking and we introduced ourselves (I’ve trained Andrew you always take your hat off, offer a firm handshake, and look the person directly in the eye).   “Nice to meet you says Lee Higgins”.  I thought to myself, I remember that name somehow…but how…who was this Lee Higgins character – ? click to find out – crazy story!  After a lengthy conversation, we learn that Lee Higgin’s, now 81 years, home course is Waterville Golf Links, won 6 times on tour and was runner-up 5 other times.   And, for a really cool trivia fact – Higgins set the world long-drive record in 1984 hitting a ball 634 yards on the runway at Baldonnel Military Airport in Dublin.  

Hogs Head ⭐⭐⭐⭐– Candidly, I had never heard of this course prior to making our trip but my golf travel agent had highly recommended it and was so excited that she got us on.   A billionaire from the USA who attended the University of Michigan (the alma mater of my oldest daughter) built this course.   It was truly incredible and because of the “Michigan connection”, I spent more money than I should have on all the blue and maize logoed items in their pro shop!  Hoags Head is located just a few minutes from Waterville Golf Club.

BallyBunion Golf Club ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐– Ranked one of the top courses in the world and I can see why.  Tom Watson considers this his favorite course in the entire world. My son being a 1 handicap, wanted to play the tips vs. my typical yardage which is my distance on my home course.   The Caddie says to Andrew – play your dad’s tees!  You will have a lot more fun.  And he was absolutely right!  With the windy conditions and tricky terrain, this was the way to go!  The caddies are always right. It’s crazy – Like ALWAYS! – They have knowledge that is passed down from generation to generation. Without them, we both agreed we would have shot 5+ strokes worse on every round.

THE WEATHER:

My Rainsuit – all I heard prior to leaving was “be prepared” for the rain.  I have become quite spoiled as I live on a golf course and with just the site of a few drops of rain, “I’m done” and happy to go back to my house and have a catch with my dog.   However in Ireland,  with the cost of the greens fees, we’re playing 18 holes even if it’s a monsoon.   I purchased a VJUS rainsuit – it cost more than my wedding celebration but I was prepared for the elements.  Plus I brought a really cool umbrella that wouldn’t turn upside down even in winds up to 1,000 mph.  I  also had 2 rain gloves and brought 2 pairs of golf shoes in case mine were soaked from the prior day.   Guess what?  It never rained in 7 straight days.  Not one drop.  Zero.  The caddies said “lads – you got so lucky.”  My rain suit is now hanging and unworn in the back of my closet.

THE CADDIES:

They were the best on so many levels.   (1) I think I would have lost a million balls without their eyes; (2) You must trust them implicitly which I learned very quickly.   One caddie had a bottle of bourbon in his pocket and on every hole took a quick sip.   My son quickly stopped drinking his water and now is a connoisseur of bourbon To recall a funny caddie story: – I carry a 4 iron which I hit about 190 yards – but I’ve recently started using my 4 hybrid which I hit more often.   My drive on the 14th hole at Tralee was in the middle of the fairway leaving me the perfect 4 iron.  The Caddie now knowing my game perfectly after prior 13 holes pulls out the 4 iron.  I said “I don’t hit the 4 iron”; his immediate response without taking a breath was “Why the Fu** am I then carrying your 4 iron?”  I felt slightly embarrassed and of course, hit the 4-iron onto the green.   We got a good laugh, drank a bit more, and started walking down the fairway.  He said, “I’ll pull out which club you should hit from now on – no need for you to look at which club it is – just hit it – Trust me, Lad”.  He was right.  What an amazing and cool guy, he was making our round even better and so much fun!

DRIVING:

Driving in Ireland – This was my first trip to Ireland.  I loved the people; I loved the scenery.  I loved the golf.  I hated one thing -the driving!! Because we were just a 2-some, we opted to save some money and rent a car (vs. a typical group of 8 or 12 golfers) who will rent a van for the week with a driver.   In short, I have never been so scared in my life driving on these roads.  Driving on the “other” side of the street was ok and relatively easy to learn (except for all the roundabouts).  However, on these tiny backroads where most of the courses are located, they say 2 cars can fit, (like in the USA,) but I can assure you…ONLY ONE CAR fits even somewhat comfortably.   Each time a van, bus, or truck passed me, I had to veer to the shoulder to stop from being hit.   BONUS: I did get a flat tire in the middle of nowhere.  Thankfully Andrew could figure out google maps and contacted an AAA-type company that eventually got us a new tire and back on the roads.   My 2 cents – get a driver! It will save you the stress of driving in a foreign land and save you some grey hair while trying not to die abroad. If you do drive – give yourself a good 30 min buffer as to when you leave for the tee time. Trust me, you WILL need it.

REFLECTION:

As I reflect on our trip, it was without question, the trip of a lifetime I had hoped it would be……..  Having my only son, Andrew, alone for a week of golf, laughs, dinners, drinking, and just strengthening our “father/son friendship was one of the most special experiences of my life.  It gave me a stark reminder not to blink – they grow fast…way too fast these days. So if you are close to having one of yours go off to school or just looking to re-kindle that relationship with a child, loved one, or just some of the old crew of golf buddies. There is no time like the present. It’s a gift – hence the term “the Present ?” As cheesy as it sounds when I proof this, I chose to keep it. It’s real. Cherish every moment…

CHEERS

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Mastering the Art of Overcoming Choking under Pressure: Strategies for Peak Performance

Learn the skills needed to stay calm under pressure.

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Imagine this: you’ve spent countless hours honing your skills, preparing for that big presentation, important meeting, or decisive sports match. But, when the big moment arrives, instead of performing at your best, your mind goes blank, your hands shake, and you flub it. The dreaded phenomenon of ‘choking under pressure’ can strike anyone, from the seasoned professional to the eager amateur. So, how do you overcome this common mental roadblock? In this article, we’ll explore effective strategies to help you conquer the fear of choking and elevate your performance under pressure.

Understanding Choking under Pressure

Before you can overcome choking, it’s crucial to understand what it is. Psychologists define choking as performing below your ability under pressure. This can be due to heightened anxiety, overthinking, or fear of failure. The irony is, the more you care about performing well, the more likely you are to choke.

Why Do We Choke?

Several factors contribute to choking under pressure. Here are a few:

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    1. Fear of Negative Evaluation: The fear of being judged negatively by others can cause significant anxiety, leading to poor performance.
    2. High Stakes: When the stakes are high, and the outcome is important, the pressure can cause you to underperform.
    3. Overthinking: The tendency to scrutinize every detail in high-pressure situations can divert your focus from the task at hand.

Strategies to Overcome Choking

Now that we understand why we choke, let’s delve into strategies to prevent it:

  1. Practice Under Pressure: Simulate high-pressure situations during practice to acclimate yourself to the stress.
  2. Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome: Concentrating on the process helps keep your mind focused and prevents overthinking.
  3. Use Positive Affirmations: Positive self-talk can boost your confidence and reduce anxiety.

Case Studies: Athletes Overcoming Choking

Many successful athletes have overcome choking to deliver exceptional performances. Take Michael Jordan, for example. He often missed crucial shots early in his career but used these failures to fuel his determination and eventually became renowned for his clutch performances. Similarly, Serena Williams has bounced back from choking in several matches to claim victory, demonstrating her mental toughness.

Choking under pressure is a common phenomenon, but with the right strategies, it can be overcome. By understanding the causes of choking and implementing techniques like practicing under pressure, focusing on the process, and using positive affirmations, you can learn to perform at your best when it counts the most. Remember, it’s not about never feeling pressure; it’s about learning how to thrive within it.

As Michael Jordan said, “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” So, next time you face a high-pressure situation, think of it as an opportunity to grow, not a threat to be feared.

If you’ve enjoyed this article and want to learn more about mastering your mental game, subscribe to our newsletter for more tips and strategies. Or, if you’re ready to take your mental toughness to the next level, check out our other articles designed to help you conquer pressure and perform at your peak.

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Golf Course Aesthetics: Exploring the Artistry of Manicured Landscapes

Imagine standing at the tee of a beautifully manicured golf course, gazing out across a landscape of rolling greens, sculpted bunkers, and artfully placed bodies of water.

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The Intersection of Golf and Art: Viewing Golf Courses as Living Masterpieces

Imagine standing at the tee of a beautifully manicured golf course, gazing out across a landscape of rolling greens, sculpted bunkers, and artfully placed bodies of water. The course stretches out before you like a canvas, a living masterpiece of design and nature. This is where golf and art intersect, where the game becomes more than just a sport and the course becomes more than just a playing field. It is a crossroads where the beauty of nature and the aesthetics of design come together to create a truly unique experience.

Understanding Golf Courses as Works of Art

Golf courses are meticulously designed and maintained, with every element placed with purpose and intention. They are the result of careful planning, creative vision, and a deep understanding of both the game of golf and the principles of landscape design. In this way, they can be viewed as works of art, with the designer acting as the artist and the landscape serving as the canvas.

The Aesthetics of Golf Course Design

Golf course design is a subtle blend of art and science. Designers must consider a range of factors, including the natural features of the landscape, the skills and abilities of the players, and the overall aesthetic of the course.

Key elements of golf course design include:

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  1. Landscape: The natural features of the landscape, including trees, water bodies, and elevation changes, are integral to the design of a golf course.
  2. Layout: The layout of a golf course is carefully planned to provide a balance of challenge and enjoyment for players.
  3. Hazards: Hazards, such as bunkers and water bodies, are strategically placed to add challenge and visual interest to the course.
  4. Green Complexes: These are the areas surrounding the putting surfaces. They include elements such as bunkers, mounds, and grassy hollows, all of which contribute to the aesthetic appeal and challenge of the course.

The Artistic Influence on Golf Courses

Many renowned golf course designers approach their work with an artist’s eye. They view the landscape as a blank canvas, using the natural features of the land and the principles of design to create an aesthetically pleasing and challenging course.

One of the most influential golf course designers, Alister MacKenzie, was actually a trained surgeon before he turned his hand to course design. His medical background gave him a unique perspective on the relationship between the human body and the landscape, and he used this knowledge to create courses that were both beautiful and challenging to play.

In his book, “The Spirit of St. Andrews,” MacKenzie wrote, “A golf course should be a beautiful place, so arranged that it pleases the eye and stimulates the mind, while the game itself brings the muscles into play.” This philosophy is evident in his designs, which are renowned for their natural beauty and strategic complexity.

Golf Course Design and Environmental Art

In recent years, there has been a growing recognition of golf course design as a form of environmental art. This is due to the increasing focus on sustainability and environmental conservation in the design and maintenance of golf courses.

An excellent example of this is the work of Bill Coore and Ben Crenshaw, who are known for their minimalist approach to course design. Their courses are designed to fit seamlessly into the natural landscape, with minimal alteration of the land. They use the existing topography and vegetation to create a course that is both challenging and visually stunning.

The Future of Golf Course Design

As we look to the future, the intersection of golf and art is set to become even more pronounced. With advances in technology, designers have increasingly sophisticated tools at their disposal, allowing for even greater creativity and innovation in course design.

At the same time, there is a growing emphasis on sustainability and environmental stewardship, with designers striving to create courses that are not only beautiful and challenging to play, but also in harmony with the natural environment.

In conclusion, golf courses are far more than just playing fields for a game. They are living canvases, where the artistry of design meets the beauty of nature. Whether you’re a golfer or not, the next time you step foot on a golf course, take a moment to appreciate the artistry and design that has gone into creating that space. It’s a testament to the incredible intersection of golf and art, and a reminder that sometimes, the crossroads of different worlds can create something truly beautiful.

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When Golf Meets Supercars: The World Series of Golf Takes Over Skip Barber’s Mexico Resort

World Series of Golf partners with Skip Barber Racing for a two-year luxury sports series at Gran Reserva, Mexico – where championship golf meets supercars starting April 2026.

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Picture this. You’re standing on the 18th green at Gran Reserva, Mexico, finishing a round of championship golf with the World Series of Golf’s signature betting format still buzzing in your veins. The sun’s dropping low. Your heart’s still racing from that final putt.

And tomorrow? You’re driving a McLaren on Skip Barber’s brand-new racetrack.

Two Sports, One Unforgettable Weekend

The World Series of Golf just announced something we’ve never seen before. A two-year partnership with Skip Barber Racing School that transforms their new Mexican resort into the ultimate luxury sports destination. It’s not just golf. It’s not just racing. It’s both, wrapped into an experience that redefines what a sporting weekend can be.

Starting in April 2026, Gran Reserva becomes ground zero for a completely new kind of event.

Year One: The Foundation

The first year lays the groundwork. You’ll compete in the World Series of Golf championship using their patented tournament format – the one that adds poker-style betting mechanics to traditional stroke play and turns every hole into a strategic showdown. High stakes. Real tension. Golf the way it was meant to be played.

But here’s where it gets interesting. While you’re playing, Skip Barber’s building their racetrack right there on the property. You’ll see construction crews working on what will become one of North America’s most anticipated racing circuits. State-of-the-art simulators give you a taste of what’s coming, letting you experience the thrill of motorsports between rounds.

VIP receptions. Celebrity appearances. Curated culinary showcases that match the caliber of the competition. It’s an invitation-only event designed for people who expect excellence and aren’t willing to settle for anything less.

Year Two: The Payoff

Then 2027 hits. The track is finished. And suddenly you’re not just imagining what it’s like to drive a supercar at speed – you’re actually doing it.

McLaren. Ferrari. Mercedes. Lamborghini. Take your pick and put it through its paces on a circuit designed by people who’ve spent over 50 years teaching professional racers how to extract every ounce of performance from a machine. Skip Barber doesn’t mess around when it comes to motorsports education, and this track reflects that pedigree.

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You’ll stay in exclusive luxury accommodations at Gran Reserva, network with athletes and industry leaders, and experience both golf and racing at the highest possible level. All in one place. All in one unforgettable weekend.

Why This Matters

Michael Berg, CFO of Skip Barber Racing School, called it perfectly: “Guests will see the racetrack under construction during our first event and then drive world-class vehicles on it the following year.”

That’s the hook. You’re not just attending an event. You’re watching it evolve. You’re part of the story from day one, and by year two, you’re living the payoff.

Robert Davidman, CEO of the World Series of Golf, added this: “This partnership unites golf and motorsports in an elevated format that caters to international fans seeking competition, luxury, and adventure.”

Competition. Luxury. Adventure. Three words that sum up what makes this special.

Why Sponsors Are Paying Attention

Here’s what makes this different from every other golf tournament trying to get your marketing dollars.

The World Series of Golf’s patent-protected format keeps spectators glued to every shot. Shot-by-shot wagering. Antes that double every three holes. Strategic decisions that matter as much as swing mechanics. It’s golf designed for television, and television designed to keep people watching.

Add Skip Barber Racing to the mix and you’ve got something networks actually want to cover. Over 40 hours of TV coverage. More than 15 million media impressions. Five million-plus social media reach. This isn’t a local tournament hoping for some local news pickup. This is a broadcast-ready event with an audience that’s already paying attention.

The demographics tell the rest of the story. You’re reaching affluent golf enthusiasts who also appreciate high-performance automobiles. International travelers who think nothing of flying to Mexico for a weekend of luxury sports. Decision-makers and industry leaders who network at VIP receptions and actually have the authority to sign deals on the spot.

Title sponsorship gets you naming rights, eight playing positions, and premium TV exposure throughout the broadcast. But even smaller packages deliver value. Hole sponsors get exclusive on-course branding and social media mentions for ten grand. Golf cart wraps guarantee TV and photo exposure because every shot of the tournament includes your brand.

The opportunities are limited by design. Only 18 hole sponsors. Three presenting sponsors. One title sponsor. Once they’re gone, they’re gone.

Want the details? Check out the full sponsorship packages at wsg.golf/sponsorship.

The Bottom Line

This isn’t your typical golf tournament. It’s not your standard track day either. It’s something entirely new – a two-year luxury sports series that gives you the best of both worlds and raises the bar for what a sporting experience can deliver.

Year one plants the seed. Year two delivers the harvest. And whether you’re attending as a player or partnering as a sponsor, you’ll be there for both.

For player inquiries, contact events@skipbarber.com. For sponsorship opportunities, reach out to sponsorship@wsg.golf. These events are strictly invitation-only, and opportunities won’t last long.

Golf and supercars. Mexico and motorsports. The World Series of Golf and Skip Barber Racing School.

This is going to be something special.

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